MOVING OUT

Back then a discussion arose, on when a woman needs to get married, the conclusion was; when she feels she’s ready. When is one supposed to move out from his /her parents house thus start depending on themselves?
You can be leaving on your own but your parents/guardians support you fully,have you moved out?
You can be leaving on your own but whenever anything slight worth letting go happens to you or within your context ,your parents/guardians have to know; have you moved out?
You’re not working, you only file zero KRA returns but your parents/guardians decide to accord you some privacy by renting for you a house, have you moved out?
Moving out entails a lot. Remember we’re not in those old days where people will feed on tree leaves and survive their whole lives.


I’ll give out both the Pros and Cons of moving out though I’ll dwell more on the cons than pros.

Pros
Here are some of the biggest benefits of moving: (I)New life and career opportunities.

Perhaps the move is work-related, or you’re just looking for a chance to seek out new friendships, experiences or other personal enrichment. Either way, moving can be a breeding ground for new experiences. Adventure awaits!
(II)Personal growth. Moving and change can be hard, but challenging times often allow us to grow as people. This move can be a good opportunity to set some personal health, financial and wellness goals and get involved in local civic or church groups. Expanding your horizons and learning something new about yourself and your community can be a positive thing.
(III)A fresh start. Yes, moving means uprooting children from their lives and leaving friends and family behind. But it also represents a chance for a fresh start. Moving could mean a new home, job, set of friends, and a change in routine. Creating a life somewhere new can be exciting and a good way to reset.

Cons
Moving might also come with some drawbacks you’ll want to consider:

(I)Cost. There’s no way around it. Moving costs money. When you plan for a move, you start thinking about how much things will cost and how quickly it all adds up. You’ll have to consider things like buying a new home, and other myriad expenses on top the cost of the actual move. The good news is there are multiple ways to save, and the cost of living may be lower in your new state!
(II)Time. From packing up your belongings to finding a new house, job and routine, moving can take a lot of time and effort. But with some careful planning, the work can be easily managed. And if the move is right for you, it’ll all be worth it in the end!
(III)The satisfaction of helping your parents.
The closer you are to your parents, the more chances you’ll get to help them, too. From taking your mom to the doctors to helping your dad spruce up the garden, spending time with your parents as they age gracefully might be a win-win situation for everyone involved.
Moving in with your parents could be an opportunity to make a few extra memories rather than complain.
(IV)You have a caring, supportive community built in.
Sharing a living space with loving, familiar faces is a lot more comforting than being with random strangers. Nobody knows you better than your parents, so you can be yourself. If you’re having trouble at work or in a relationship, you can consult your parents and learn from their experience. If you’re struggling in school, you can find comfort in your family. Your parents will be there for chatting, gossiping, hanging out, and watching movies.
True community is a rare and wonderful thing in life, and there’s no guarantee you’ll find it outside the home. It’s hard to create strong bonds with random roommates. If you feel like taking time off from renting and sharing housing with strangers, living with your parents could give you some comfort and peace of mind.

(V)You have the freedom to take more risks.
Because you’re not completely stretched to the limit financially, living at home gives you a little wiggle room to take risks. If you’re on your own, the pressure to pay the bills might force you to accept the first job offer you get, but you can wait for a better offer if you’re living at home. You have a competitive edge in the job market because you can afford to change jobs or take a lower-paying job for a little while to build your résumé. You can afford to go back to school to get the higher degree required to secure a better-paying position.
Just knowing that you have a home base to come back to if a plan falls through can give you the courage you need to try something new. You might even save enough to travel abroad!

Remember you can move out at 20 and come back with burdens/blessings while at 30. Similarly you can move out at 30 and come with full blessings/burdens anytime you visit.

Either way the ball is in your court!

©️Omondi