We all want to uphold our dignity in a way that the humanity within us is not lost. No one wants to be referred to as a ‘rotten’ or a ‘wasted’ person no matter how evil one might be in an actual case. Love, lust, affection, emotions and drugs. How do relationships and drugs relate?
I thought of keeping this as a secret but more than keeping it all to myself, it’s revelation would help some people our here who have ears to listen but not patches to beautify their face. It happened to me once. I got myself falling in love with a person who was a drug addict. To be honest, these people aren’t bad at all until their ‘demons’ kick in.
Until now I never understood whether he used the power of drugs to charm or entice me or whatever the case happened. May be I’m still too naïve to understand. He never forced me to use drugs at one single point, but whenever he felt like he needed company, he went looking for his drug buddies to roll with.
It was hard watching him inject himself, smoke and drink at his convenience. His friends pressuring him to get a girl who does drugs as well. Don’t they say birds of a feather flock together? Clearly, him and I were not cut from the same cloth. Nothing was common between us . Deceitful list was all that made us cling together.
I never liked the passive inhalation of the drugs he did. It gave me bad moments. Bad head aches and the effects came out more clearly later. I was slowly destroying my sanity thinking I was holding on to some type of love that never existed from the first place.
Some of us be falling for the personality that is only drug caused. I hear every one is looking for a bad boy these days. People are afraid of being in the hands of well behaved men who are full of virtue. Sad!
They don’t abuse you until they abuse those drugs and start viewing you in a different dimension. Violence comes up and at some point it becomes intense where lives are put at risk. Rape, murder, adultery which can lead to spread of terminal diseases, name them.
Be careful who you claim to love. Be cautious who you’re hosting at your home. Know their friends , know their families, know them from deep within if you really care for them and care for yourself as well.. I mean, vet, vet, vet.
You don’t want to date or worse marry a veterinary who cannot treat anything but only ruin things. An addict, a drug user who is probably uncontrollable. If you’ve tried talking to them and you’re unable, then it’s time to pack up your things and stride.
Give them a better chance to better themselves in your presence. Better your preference as well. Drugs is not an option. We all aren’t that helpless as well.
Let Only Virtues Endure (LOVE) . Lead a healthy relationship where the both of you are behaved to quit what needs quitting.
See you when you’re treading on a different path. Drug free I suppose.
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